Don't Read Till After... Anthology 2 by Ena Howds and Tracci Howds
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Saturday, June 21, 2014
Sunday, June 15, 2014
Father's Day Special! Don't Read Till After...
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Don't Read till After...: Julie's Lover
by Ena Howds
What better way to celebrate Father's Day than with a hot girl-on-girl hotel fling?
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by Ena Howds
What better way to celebrate Father's Day than with a hot girl-on-girl hotel fling?
Enjoy ;)
Saturday, June 14, 2014
I prioritize feeling sexy. Yes, you read that right. Our daily lives are filled with obligations, deadlines, stress, and hopefully some downtime to relax. I realized early on in our marriage that I had to make an effort to make time to be sexy. Now I don't schedule a certain time during the day and I'm not necessarily talking about masturbation, although that would work. What I'm talking about is taking the time to feel good about myself in a sexual way.
Sometimes it is as simple as dressing for the day. A little bit of make-up and a great outfit even though I'm just running to the store. I love to clean the house in a t-shirt and panties. If Tracci comes home to a clean house and me baking cookies in next to nothing, lets just say it makes both of us happy.
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Another way I keep feeling sexy is staying fit. That being said, I do not have my ideal body but I'm working towards it. I don't feel sexy doing push-ups or sprints but when I finish a good hard workout I feel invincible. I try to embrace the body I do have. Working out allows me to be optimistic and less self conscious of my so called problem areas. Knowing I have the endurance to keep up with most people in the bedroom doesn't hurt.
I love being flirty with my husband. I will tease him and myself throughout the day with little intimate touches. A innocent hug turned into a little innocent grope. Oops food fell on my boobs again. Better wipe that up with my finger and lick it off. (Warning: I did this the other day with nacho cheese dip. I swear I meant nothing sexual by it. Just wanted to clean it off my cleavage because who wants cheese in there cleavage? Anyway, we were in mixed company and I think I gave the older guy a boner. A little awkward...) One of my favorites is bending at the waist to pick up something, sticking my buns in the air in my little tight shorts and my boobs spilling out of my top. I make sure Tracci gets a good view.
Now some of these take more effort than others but the outcome is the same. Feeling good about myself and sexy as i go about my day. It is amazing how these simple activities positively affect my mood and my day.
-Ena
Sometimes it is as simple as dressing for the day. A little bit of make-up and a great outfit even though I'm just running to the store. I love to clean the house in a t-shirt and panties. If Tracci comes home to a clean house and me baking cookies in next to nothing, lets just say it makes both of us happy.
Father's Day Gift Ideas!
Another way I keep feeling sexy is staying fit. That being said, I do not have my ideal body but I'm working towards it. I don't feel sexy doing push-ups or sprints but when I finish a good hard workout I feel invincible. I try to embrace the body I do have. Working out allows me to be optimistic and less self conscious of my so called problem areas. Knowing I have the endurance to keep up with most people in the bedroom doesn't hurt.
I love being flirty with my husband. I will tease him and myself throughout the day with little intimate touches. A innocent hug turned into a little innocent grope. Oops food fell on my boobs again. Better wipe that up with my finger and lick it off. (Warning: I did this the other day with nacho cheese dip. I swear I meant nothing sexual by it. Just wanted to clean it off my cleavage because who wants cheese in there cleavage? Anyway, we were in mixed company and I think I gave the older guy a boner. A little awkward...) One of my favorites is bending at the waist to pick up something, sticking my buns in the air in my little tight shorts and my boobs spilling out of my top. I make sure Tracci gets a good view.
Now some of these take more effort than others but the outcome is the same. Feeling good about myself and sexy as i go about my day. It is amazing how these simple activities positively affect my mood and my day.
-Ena
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Sunday, May 25, 2014
Cheating Versus Open Marriages
Question:
-If more couples considered monogamy optional, would divorce and cheating be less common, and unmarried cohabitation less attractive?
-What if it were compulsory to write a personalized marriage contract with your spouse, tailored to your own circumstances?
Replacing today’s default marriage vows with compulsory personal contracts would create the space for two adults to seriously and soberly sit down and decide what it is that they want from married life.
In response to the question 'If more couples considered monogamy optional, would divorce and cheating be less common?" The plain and simple answer as I see it, complicated. There is nothing simple in relationships.
We all have to make a conscious decision to make it work, to compromise, and to be honest with our spouses and ourselves. I think in general if couples choose to make a shift from a monogamous relationship to an open one the number of divorces will remain the same. Those couples that during their monogamous part of their marriage were not honest with each other will continue to deceive themselves. They will just be shagging someone else openly.
I have found in my experience as a closet bi-sexual, by not telling my significant other about my sexuality and hoping that I could just keep it under wraps, even from my self, was destructive. I wasn't able to share a part of my life with a woman I loved. I cheated, numerous times; it was not because I didn’t love her. But she didn’t have what I wanted sometimes. In the end I broke up with her, never telling her the truth. I still am crushed by my actions and decision years later.
I don't know if Betsey Stevenson and Justin Wolfers were being facetious or not about their personalized marriage contract, but the idea has some warrant. Not as a means to restrict each partner in a marriage but rather as a means of open discussion and learning.
I attended a private Lutheran University and was shocked at the numbers of both men and women attending school for their 'Mr. and Mrs. Degrees'. These were smart students who were using college like a dating site. Most were pushing to get married in a hurry, for the purpose of sex. It was their belief that sex before marriage was a sin.
I have a close friend who married her husband at 20 years old her sophomore year. The divorce was finalized 6 months later to the day.
When I asked what the biggest cause of the divorce was she replied simply that 'We wanted different things.' I assumed she had just meant the things like number of kids, who's parents they were going to live near, not her next words. As she leaned in close lowering her voice she said
'Would you believe he wanted to stick it in my butt!?' I of course hid my laughter.
I wonder though, how many couples would stay together with their current partner if all the cards were on the table, honestly. Not just about sexual stuff but the rest too.
We as a society have a tendency to be afraid to be honest, to open up about our fantasies. Now a contract isn't the right way. For one why fill out a survey when you can talk with your spouse, you might learn something.
Also keep in mind people change, they evolve and adapt. Their interests change. As a couple, just starting out or if married for ages, if you don’t keep the lines of communication open then you will grow apart. Who knows maybe you both might just like it in the butt.
-Tracci
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